When death occurs, Solimine Funeral Homes personnel are available to assist you at any hour, seven days a week. Please call (781) 595-1492 for assistance.
Will someone come right away?
If you request immediate assistance, yes. If the family wishes to spend a short time with the deceased to say good bye, it's acceptable. Our staff will come when the time is right for you.
If a loved one dies out of state, can Solimine Funeral Homes still help?
When death occurs away from home, Solimine Funeral Homes can assist you with out-of-state arrangements and transfer the deceased to a preferred location. Please call (781) 595-1492 for assistance.
Funeral Cost Questions
What does the average funeral cost?
The cost of a funeral varies with each family. We find, that in 2010, the cost of a full traditional service, on average, falls between $7000 and $9000 exclusive of cemetery and/or crematory charges. This includes our professional services, transfer of remains, embalming and preparation, use of our facilities for viewing, use of facilities for ceremony, hearse, limousine, flower car, casket and vault or urn. The cost of non-traditional service packages starts at $2,950.
What recourse does a consumer have for poor service or overcharging?
Funeral service is regulated by the Federal Trade Commission and state licensing boards. In most cases, the consumer should discuss problems with the funeral director first. If the dispute cannot be solved by talking with the funeral director, the consumer may wish to contact the Funeral Service Consumer Assistance Program. FSCAP provides information, mediates disputes, provides arbitration, and maintains a consumer guarantee fund for reimbursement of services rendered. (To contact FSCAP, call 708-827-6337 or 800-662-7666).
What is the purpose of a funeral?
Funerals provide surviving family members and friends a caring, supportive environment in which to recognize the death of a loved one, and to share thoughts and feelings about that person. Funerals are the first step in the healing process. The ritual of attending a funeral service provides many benefits including:
Providing a social support system for the bereaved
Helping the bereaved understand death is final and that death is part of life
Integrating the bereaved back into the community
Easing the transition to a new life after the death of a loved one
Providing a safe haven for embracing and expressing pain
Reaffirming one's relationship with the person who died
Providing a time to say good-bye
It is possible to have a full funeral service even for those choosing cremation. The importance of the ritual is in providing a social gathering to help the bereaved begin the healing process.
I've never arranged a funeral before. What do I need to know?
At some time in our lives, most of us will make or assist in making funeral arrangements. This will not be an easy time, but we offer these tips for smart planning:
Be an informed consumer and ask questions
Choose an independent funeral home and a licensed funeral director
Discuss all service and payment options during the funeral arrangements
Make sure you receive a copy of the funeral home's General Price List
Be prepared and make decisions and organize details in advance of need
Plan a personalized and meaningful ceremony to help you begin healing
What do funeral directors do?
Funeral directors are caregivers and administrators. They make the arrangements for the transportation of the deceased, complete all necessary paperwork, and implement the choices made by the family regarding the funeral and final disposition of the deceased. They are entrusted with the care of the deceased including preparation with or without embalming for private or public viewing.
Funeral directors are listeners, advisors and supporters. They have experience assisting the bereaved in coping with death. Funeral directors are trained to answer questions about grief, recognize when a person is having difficulty coping, and recommend sources of professional help. Funeral directors also link survivors with support groups at the funeral home or in the community.
What types of funeral services exist?
Every family is different, and not everyone wants the same type of funeral. Funeral practices are influenced by religious and cultural traditions, costs and personal preferences. These factors help determine whether the funeral will be elaborate or simple, public or private, religious or secular, and where it will be held. They also influence whether the body will be present at the funeral, if there will be a viewing or visitation, and if so, whether the casket will be open or closed, and whether the remains will be buried or cremated.
Why have a public viewing?
Viewing is part of many cultural and ethnic traditions. Many grief specialists believe that viewing aids the grief process by helping the bereaved recognize the reality of death. Viewing is encouraged for children as long as the process is explained and the activity voluntary.
What is the purpose of embalming?
Embalming sanitizes and preserves the deceased, retards the decomposition process and enhances the appearance of someone disfigured by traumatic death or illness. Embalming makes it possible to lengthen the time between death and the final disposition, thus allowing family members time to arrange and participate in the type of service most comforting to them.
Is embalming required by law?
No. Most states, however, require embalming when death is caused by a reportable contagious disease or when a deceased is to be transported from one state to another by common carrier, or if final disposition is not to be made within a prescribed number of hours.
Cremation, Burial and Entombment Questions
What are the principal types of cemeteries, and how do they differ?
Cemeteries are usually divided into two categories: traditional cemeteries and memorial parks. Typically, a traditional cemetery has both upright and flat monuments, usually made of stone. Memorial Parks are a newer type of cemetery in which monuments are placed level with the ground to blend with the landscape. They often feature expansive lawns with a variety of trees and gardens.
A growing trend in burial is the concept of green burial, or natural burial. This type of burial is being adopted as a method for protecting and restoring the natural environment. With a green burial, the body is returned to nature in a biodegradable casket or shroud. In most cases, graves are dug by hand rather than using heavy equipment.
Are there differences between earth burial and entombment?
Earth burial is a common form of disposition at a cemetery. The casket is buried beneath the ground, usually in a burial vault or grave box. A monument of marker is placed at the grave as a visible sign of memorialization. Most cemeteries have a variety of different types of graves; such as a single grave for one burial, lots that accommodate two or more burials, and lots designed specifically for burial of cremated remains. Many cemeteries have sections which allow for the burial of two caskets in one grave, also known as double-depth burial. Double depth means that one casket is placed in the grave at an approximate depth of seven feet. At the time of the second interment, the second casket is placed on top of the first casket. This allows for the cemeteries to maximize available space.
Many cemeteries also offer private and/or community mausoleums and cremation niches; all of which are used for above ground interment. Another word for above ground interment is entombment. Mausoleums are above ground structures that contain concrete or stone crypts in which the casket is placed. There are two types of mausoleums; community and private. A community mausoleum is a large building designed to provide above ground interment for a number of unrelated people. These mausoleums contain numerous crypts designed to hold casketed remains. Once the casket is entombed, the crypt is sealed and a granite or marble front is attached. A private or family mausoleum is a privately owned structure designed to entomb the remains of individual families. Private mausoleums are typically smaller in size than community mausoleums, but the size of a private mausoleum can vary depending on the wishes of the family. A cremation niche is just like a mausoleum crypt, only smaller. It is designed to hold an urn containing cremated remains.
Do cemeteries require burial vaults and/or grave boxes?
Most, but not all, cemeteries require you to purchase a burial vault or grave box; also called an Outer Burial Container, for earth burial. In most areas of the country, state or local law does not require that you buy an Outer Burial Container to surround the casket in a grave. However, many cemeteries require that you have one so that the ground will not sink.
What are the cemetery regulations and restrictions for monuments and planting?
Every cemetery has different regulations regarding the size and type of monument allowed. There are upright monuments made of stone, flat markers made of bronze or granite, and government issued headstones and markers. Solimine Funeral Homes can assist you in determining the regulations and restrictions at a certain cemetery. Many cemeteries allow for the planting of flowers at the grave. Most have restrictions on the size and area that can be planted. Other cemeteries do not allow planting, but will allow flowers to be placed at the grave if certain guidelines are followed.
Where can I get more information on cremation?
The number of people choosing cremation has increased significantly in the past few years, yet cremation carries a long tradition and remains largely unchanged. Cremation simply expedites the process of reducing a body to bone fragments through application of intense heat. What is done before or after the cremation is up to the survivors, or up to you. You can relieve the burden of these decisions by pre-planning your arrangements in advance of need so that your wishes will be honored. Contrary to what some people believe, Cremation does not limit choices, but, in fact, increases one’s options. It is a process which is performed in a respectful and dignified manner and can be memorialized in many ways.
We can assist you with the necessary information for a funeral or memorial service with a cremation.
What are your cremation policies, procedures, and requirements?